stupid bro

i was talking to a fren on msn one day, and he told me tt he was diagnosed w a genetic heart disease.. then a few weeks later, he was suspected with another complication of e disease.. well, he feels tt he is not normal but he will try to lead a normal life.. and he stresses on e word try.. so i thot i need to change his outlook in life.. it was hard to do tt cuz he kept like arguing and i felt powerless to encourage him..cuz i felt like he thinks i dunno wat he's going thru and i make it sound so easy to lead a normal life.. but i took time to pray, and i continue to talk to him.. in e end, he said "do u know y i keep arguing and debating w u?" i thot he is going to say like cuz i don understand at all.. but, he said " cuz i want to hear some enlightenment.." i am like oh! ok..so i ask him if it helped..
and he said may have accepted some of e things i said!=] anyway, his method of making me say more doesnt really work on me la, cuz i don like to argue except if it is for e fun of it.. but i feel tt i have to change his perspective to a more positive one, so i persisted.. and it worked! maybe not alot, but hopefully it made him feel better..